wedding non-planning

My mother has a dress for the wedding already and I haven't even been dress shopping. I do have a little over five months, so I'm not too worried. Maybe I should be worried. Maybe I should be worried that I'm not worried. BP is frustrated with my wedding planning, or my lack of wedding planning I should say. I'm trying... I just know that I want to get married. Whether or not we have the tables longwise or round, music or none, an a-line or whatever other kind of dress there is, I frankly don't care. I've been warning family that it's not going to be a traditional wedding with all the frills.. The marriage ceremony followed by food and drinks and visiting with family and friends... sounds great to me!